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Change Your Soul Contracts, Change Your Life: Ashley Brothers

In my last blog, I explained the concept of Akashic Records and Soul Contracts, the difference between the two, and how to explore them through meditation and journeying to other realms. In this blog, I will explain the soul contracts we make AFTER we are born, how they deeply impact our lives, and how to change them so that we can have a different quality of life. Basically, when you change your soul contracts and follow through with the new terms and conditions, you are changing the timeline or path you are on… not just in this lifetime, but in other lifetimes, timelines, and dimensions as well. This deeply impacts your health, your relationships, career, life purpose, wealth, and so on.

The right soul contracts can transform your life for the better such as destiny, dharma, love, abundance, blessings, and miracles. The wrong ones can destroy your life and that of many others around you such as poverty, illness, hardship, and suffering. So, one must be very careful, intentional, conscious, and aware before attempting to change their soul contracts. Claiming ignorance or lack of awareness of what you were doing will not spare you from the consequences. So, pay attention to what I am about to share with you.


For whatever, reason, many people seek to change their soul contracts. They simply want a different life and believe that something has to change on a soul level in order for that to happen. This may include healing of some kind (like soul retrieval, extraction of intrusive energies, curse unraveling, or cord cutting) or the awareness and revision of their soul contracts. Perhaps all their best efforts seem to fail no matter what they do and no matter how hard they try. So, they believe that the problem must be at the soul level, in some other dimension, rather than here in ordinary reality.

Other people don’t believe in the concept of soul contracts…especially those made before birth. They believe that you are what you make of yourself in this lifetime and dimension. They believe that your identity and life's trajectory are shaped solely by your thoughts, feelings, and environment – the people and elements in your surroundings. Both the mystic and the pragmatic individual are correct. Soul contracts, while intangible, don’t have to be otherworldly, religious, magical, spiritual, or from a past incarnation to profoundly impact every aspect of your life. They often have nothing to do with pre-birth agreements at all, but rather something you chose (knowingly or unknowingly) and enacted in this lifetime because of your beliefs, programming, or experiences. All of these become the invisible blueprints, algorithms, and filters that dictate the path you create and follow.

When you commit to something – whether it's a thought pattern, an emotion, a relationship, a career, a routine, or a lifestyle – it's akin to signing a contractual agreement that has consequences that positively or negatively affect your life. Your attention and active participation in any event, situation, or relationship act like permission and consent and impact you just as potently as any written or spoken contract made with a partner, a spouse, a corporation, or others. It will either yield rewards and advantages that help you manifest your goals and dreams or it exact a toll on your time, energy, finances, health, wellness, and even your safety. Even if you don’t give explicit verbal or written consent to participate in something, whatever you passively allow will continue…even if you hate it.

When you agree to interact, communicate, or connect with an individual or engage in a particular venture, you are essentially entering into an arrangement/contract (knowingly or unknowingly) with that person or entity for some period of time. While you may be unconscious and unaware of these agreements, and therefore assume they must have been made prior to your incarnation in this lifetime, many of these agreements or contracts are established AFTER your birth. . . not before. Once you are conscious and aware of what they are and why you made them, they can often be changed through intention, purposeful action, and support in this realm and beyond.

Meditation, journaling, and other forms of introspection are important for becoming aware of what needs to change and how . . . . such as knowing what you want to experience in this lifetime and what you need to start or stop doing in order to have those experiences. Rituals, ceremonies, and therapeutic techniques serve as powerful tools for dispelling energies that obstruct your advancement and for reclaiming energies that put you into energetic alignment with your goals.

Anyone interested in manifestation must know that the Law of Attraction follows the Law of Resonance. To attract, manifest, or create something, you must first resonate and harmonize with the frequency that matches it. For instance, Wealth is not luck or an accident. It is a mindset, a vibration, a personality, and a set of behaviors. Wealthy people attract more wealth and opportunities because of what they think, say, do, and radiate; not because they are lucky or conniving.

Failure to align with the frequencies of your desires can serve as a barrier, pushing them away. A person with a poverty mindset will never attract or create wealth. They will always blame something or someone else, make excuses, focus on obstacles, and worst-case scenarios, make bad decisions, and perpetuate their debt. A victim mentality will never see the truth of any situation and become a hero of their own life. They will make more decisions that perpetuate victimhood. Someone focused on illness will never be healthy. Constantly focusing on and talking about being sick just makes a person sicker. This is the Placebo Effect in reverse. Someone who hates themselves or feels unworthy of love will never attract a healthy relationship that fosters true love. They will repel what they seek and find or attract more unsatisfying relationships in which they feel lonely.

Where attention goes, energy flows. What you think and how you feel generates the electromagnetic field that attracts or repels what you seek. So in order to change your life, you have to become what you seek and surround yourself with other people who also share the lifestyle, mindset, behaviors, and vibrations you want to embody because like attracts like. Birds of a feather, flock together. You are what you eat. You are who you hang with.

What you think and how you feel influences other people and/or is influenced by them. You can’t be toxic and negative and attract positive people and events nor can you become a positive person with a good life if you are surrounded by negative and toxic people that lower your vibration. Energy is infectious. So, don’t indulge in negative attitudes, thoughts, emotions, beliefs, complaining, or gossip. Don’t spend time in toxic relationships or environments. Spend time with people and things that raise you up. Practice positive thinking and feeling how you want to feel. This creates the neuropathways that are the foundation for a new mindset. You can get further inspiration and insight by studying the people who have done what you want to do.

If you want money, you have to feel wealthy before your wealth shows up. You have to think and act like a wealthy person because they make different decisions than someone with a poverty mindset. Study millionaires and learn what they think, how they feel, and how they act. What have you done (or not done) that put you in your current condition? Stop doing that. What do millionaires do differently than the rest of the population? Start doing that. Become that. Radiate that and see what shows up.

Hence, a component of renegotiating soul contracts involves recognizing the beliefs, commitments, and actions you've undertaken during this existence that hinder, repel, or decelerate your progress. Simultaneously, it entails identifying the fresh beliefs, commitments, and behaviors you need to adopt and integrate to change your current path and enhance your quality of life.

So, take the time to truly identify what areas of your life are not working: Love, money, career, health, life purpose, etc. Be honest with yourself no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Do you have contracts (blueprints/programming) for poverty, illness, loneliness, pain, suffering, and hardship in your energetic field that need to be cleared? Some may be personal while others are ancestral or cultural. Do you need to make new contracts with love, joy, health, partnership, abundance, and prosperity?

Everything starts off energetically and works its way down through the layers such as the energetic to the spiritual, to the mental/emotional, and then the physical. Once it is at the physical level, it is at every level, but you must go to the highest level to change all the rest. Change your energy first and the rest will follow. Below, you'll find a ritual designed to start you on the process of changing the soul contracts you have made in this lifetime and in others.

Ritual for Changing Soul Contracts:

Materials Needed:

  • Quiet and sacred space

  • Candle (color of your choice, preferably white or a color that resonates with your intention)

  • Incense or smudging herbs

  • Pen and paper

  • Crystals or gemstones (optional)

  • Quiet music or sounds of nature


  1. Choose a time and place where you won't be disturbed. Create a calm and serene atmosphere in the chosen space.

  2. Set your intention for the ritual. What soul contract or aspect of your life do you wish to explore or potentially change? Reflect on your intention and the reasons behind it. Also, identify the answers to the following questions before you do the ritual:

    • What do I value?

    • What do I want to experience in this lifetime?

    • How do I need to grow in order to have those experiences such as what do I need to start or stop doing in order to have those experiences?

    • If I were to have those experiences and grow in those ways, how would I contribute?

Note: Knowing the answers to these questions before looking at your soul contracts may give you clues to what you need to align with or clear in order to have the life you seek. You may need to clear a contract about poverty, loneliness, hardship, illness, or suffering. You may need to align with or write new contracts for wealth, love, joy, health, and opportunity.

Ritual Steps:

1. Cleansing and Grounding:

  • Light the incense or smudging herbs to cleanse the space and yourself. Visualize any negative energies being released and replaced with positive, healing energy.

  • Take a few deep breaths to center yourself. Visualize roots growing from your feet into the Earth, grounding you.

2. Lighting the Candle:

  • Light the candle as a symbol of illumination, clarity, and transformation. As you do so, state your intention out loud or in your mind.

3. Meditation and Visualization:

  • Close your eyes and enter a meditative state. Imagine yourself surrounded by a warm, protective light.

  • Visualize a doorway or portal in front of you. This represents the realm where your soul contracts are stored.

4. Entering the Realm:

  • Imagine yourself stepping through the doorway or portal. As you enter this realm, ask for the presence of any spiritual guides, higher beings, or your higher self.

5. Connecting with Your Contracts:

  • In this realm, imagine scrolls, books, or symbols representing your soul contracts. Approach the one that pertains to your intention.

6. Communicating Your Intentions:

  • Communicate your desire to explore or potentially change this contract. Speak from your heart, expressing your reasons and intentions clearly.

7. Revising the Contract:

  • Imagine the contract before you changing, shifting, or transforming according to your intentions. Visualize the energies of your desired changes infusing the contract.

8. Acknowledgment and Gratitude:

  • Thank any spiritual guides or beings who are present for their assistance. Express gratitude for the opportunity to explore your soul contracts.

9. Returning to the Present:

  • Visualize yourself leaving the realm and stepping back through the doorway or portal. As you do so, feel the transformational energies accompanying you.

10. Closing the Ritual:

  • Gently blow out the candle, symbolizing the completion of the ritual.

  • Spend a few moments in quiet reflection, integrating the experiences and insights gained during the ritual.

11. After the Ritual:

  • Take note of any thoughts, feelings, or insights you experienced during the ritual. These could offer guidance or clarity moving forward.

Important Note: Remember that this ritual is based on spiritual beliefs and is meant to be adapted to your personal understanding and practice. It's essential to approach such rituals with an open heart and a sense of reverence. If you're uncertain or uncomfortable with any step, feel free to modify the ritual to align with your beliefs and comfort level. It's also essential to approach the concept of changing soul contracts with respect for the lessons and growth they offer. Not all contracts may be changeable, and any alterations should be made with deep introspection and consideration of their impact on your spiritual journey.

Now that you have the spiritual ritual to activate your intentions, let’s revisit the questions I asked you to identify before doing the ceremony and take it one step further. This formula, if followed, will change your life.


Write down the answers to the following questions in clear detail.

  1. What do I value?

  2. What do I want to experience in this lifetime?

  3. How do I need to grow in order to have those experiences such as what do I need to start or stop doing in order to have those experiences?

  4. If I were to have those experiences and grow in those ways, how would I contribute?

  5. Write down 10 things you want to accomplish in 1 year, 10 things in 5 years, and 10 things in 10 years. Write an end date for each one and then identify which chief goal will satisfy the rest…if possible. Then start creating a plan of action.

  6. Remind yourself of your goals on a daily basis and take action every single day.

Most people never accomplish their goals because they never write them down. Nor do they set a date by which they need to be accomplished, write out an action plan, or follow through. Wishes are goals with no power in them. If you want something done, you have to do it yourself. When you write things down and remind yourself every day what is important, valuable, and necessary, you are programming your subconscious mind to seek opportunities, solutions, resources, events, circumstances, and relationships that match what you seek. Writing and rehearing your goals and values is a powerful tool called auto-suggestion and it has been scientifically proven to help you because anything that is repeated with enough energy behind it, will manifest for better or worse.

So, remind yourself that you are worthy, willing, and capable of having what you want and need; that you are the captain of your soul; the CEO of your life; and the master of your reality. While there are many things that cannot be changed, there are far greater things that can. You just have to identify what, how, and when and be willing to do the work even if you are uncomfortable. By following the formula above, you will create new contracts with your soul that will heal and transmute the past, transform the present, and empower your future.

Ashley Brothers - Institute of Conscious Evolution LLC, Bend OR

Author of A Living Prayer Blog, public speaker, holistic practitioner, and teacher of energy medicine, shamanic healing, and psychic channeling


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